My mother is mean

My mom is so mean she takes away my phone for everything…like last night I was texting in the car and shes like well you do that too much give me the phone. I was like really upset because she reads my texts. She wont let me go out with my boyfriend. I swear I am not lying about this part: I asked her if I could go to the mall with my boyfriend and she said no I have things to do around the house. I helped her with laundry all week and now she has told me that we are going to an alpaca farm!!! No lie! She would rather have me go to an alpaca farm than have a little bit of fun with anything. last night she upset me so much that I just took a knife and…well use your imagination. What can I do to stop her from being so…ugh!

Answer #1

No offense, but you would hate me as your mom.

My daughter gets “unplugged” for poor behavior. This could be running her mouth/talking back, not doing as told, fighting to do homework…

Any of the above and:

She loses her:

TV, Nintendo DS, Computer/Internet privellages, Cellphone - anything and everything electronic is forbiden.

My daughter is only 8… and she understands Mommy isn’t mean, but mommy won’t take her bologna.

You’re mother wants to spend time with you… and as a mom, I wouldn’t want my daughters life revoloving around some guy at that age either.

I think you need to realize that she loves you and she is looking out for your best interest. YOu’ll thank her later… trust me. I’m 26 now and the best of friends with my mom.

Answer #2

dont worry, trust me your mom loves you and once to help you she carried you in her womb for nine monthes and then gave birth to you, if it’s really a big deal talk to her and come up with an agreement, maybe move in w a relitive, dont turn to violence w your mom though.

Answer #3

Your mom doesn’t sound mean, she sounds like a mom. I’m sure there’s more to the story then just she takes away your phone all the time. Your still young and under your parents rules and roof, they have every right to stop you from doing things, especially if it means your alone with a boy. You’ll understand one day when your older. I know I sure did, especially now that I have a child of my own. She’s only trying to protect you and she loves you. Maybe she reads through your text messages because you dont talk to her anymore. Any mom would be concerned about their daughter and try and figure out what’s going on in their lives, if their not letting them in on it.

Answer #4

YOUR MOM IS NOT MEAN NOBODYS MOM IS MEAN ITS JUST THAT THE GIRLS MOM ARE JUST MORE STRICT ON THEM CAUSE WE ARE GIRLS AND THEY don’t WANT US DOING what THEY DID THATS ALL THE BEST THING IS TO HELP YOUR MOM AND DO what SHE SAYS CAUSE MY MOM IS THE SAME WAY BUT THE ONLY WAY I CAN GO WITH HIM IS IF HIS PARENTS ARE WITH US… BUT THAT don’t ALWAYS WORK SO don’t DO NOTHING STUPID BE A GOOD GIRL YOUR MOM WILL GET USE TO IT AND LET YOU GO OUT ONE DAY WITH HIM JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME

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