How to deal with my best friend's new friend?

My best friend and my other friend that I hang with but I don’t really like her that much are hanging out every day after school and last year me and my best friend used to hang out every day and if I tell my best friend to wear the same thing she’ll go and tell the other girl and if I ask my best friend to come over after school then she’ll tell that other girl. And then she’ll want to come and I’ve already told my best friend that I can’t take it anymore and that I miss spending time with her and I really really do miss her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer #1

talk to her again, the 3 of you dont have to do everything together, sometimes it nice to have a little one on one time with your bestie, so talk to her about it and when you organise something ask if its ok that its just the 2 of you.

Answer #2

Dear nessi, Well it sounds like your best friend is spreading her wings and starting new relationships. People grow and change at different rates…our friends really do come and go. Different friends offer us different things one may like movies and the other doesn’t, one may like to shop the other doesn’t. Since we don’t have dibs on a person she is free to have other friends as you are. If you want to be with her alone…she is your friend so just ask her. Sue…good luck

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