mommie to be (plan G) what do you think

okay… I have thought of a million different ways to tell my mom im pregnant and moving out.. all of them are scary… but here is plan G.. my mom gets out of work at 6am so I was going to leave her a note telling her that im pregnant and a bunch of other stuff and that I was going to be at my boyfriends house for a few days until she had time to cool off… then I’d wait she calls me and is ready to talk camly and my boyfriend and I will go to her house and we’d all talk calmly and like adults..

Answer #1

I think thats good idea. unless hes overage then you should tell her to her face. or tell her somthing is wrong and shell take you to the docter. then tell the docter your pregnant and he /she will tell her!

Answer #2

thanks… my moms a lot different then you all think.. I get kicked out for everything so I aint worried about going to my baby dads house

Answer #3

we;;, my advice would be to, write the letter but dont dont dont stay at your boyfriends house, cause most likely she is not to fond of him right now. I would say to stay at a friend that she likes house that you also trust

Answer #4

tell her in person. tell her what you would like to do and ask her for her advice. know everyone things their parents are crazy but she may actually have some good advice for you and also makes her be involved in a thoughtful way, not just in the emotion of the minute.

Answer #5

shes goingg to be furious whether you tell her by note, phone, in person etc. If it wus mahh mom the note wouldnt work, id just sit down with her apolopgize, tell her you love her, and drop the bomb let her know your plans and see if she accepts them if not well your sixteen and still a minor so cant move out :/

good luck tho.

Answer #6

I was 15 when I got pregnant. I’m 16 now, and I have a beautiful daughgter. I thought my mama would go crazy, and beat the hell outta me, but she didn’t. She was happy that I told her as soon as I did.

AND: she can’t do a damn thing about you moving out, as long as you prove you have a decent place to stay.

Hope I helped. good luck.

Answer #7

First things first, do NOT leave her a note because 1. she will feel compelled 2 go 2 your boyfriend house. And she will take longer 2 calm down and will most likely b more mad for you not confronting her up front and in personal. The best choice is 2 just tell her upfront! She will understand and find a safe and healthy way 2 talk 2 you about your baby.

Answer #8

You’re 16, what makes you think she’s going to let you move out? And what makes you think she’s not going to call the cops on your overage boyfriend and have him locked up as a sex offender? Unless you are afraid of a violent reaction, it’s time to grow up and actually tell her face to face…

Answer #9

The important thing is that you tell her as soon as possible.

If this is the way that makes you feel most comfortable then do it - at least you’re being fair about it.

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