Why does my mom talk to this old "friend" everynight?

He calls her like ten times a day.And whenever my mom is on the phone with him she ignores me.She is still married but my parents are separated.She claims nothing is going on but facebook stuff makes me believe other.I saw on her facebook that he was like “what are you getting too close to mikey?lmao!”Thats my father okay,she should be close to him?This is crazy ! I soI don’t like what she is doing.And I talked to her about it and she hates it.What can I do ? Is it wrong ?

Answer #1

It may help her relieve the stress from the day, I talk to my bf ever night b4 bed and we discuss the day and it does help to have someone u can relate to and she probably relates to him, but that doesn’t mean that she is right for ignoreing u, ur kids shud come first

Answer #2

Is your mom married?… It might sound like she’s into this “old friend”.. but, you know, never jump to conclusions, you should investigate more.

Answer #3

It’s not wrong, they’re separated, they’re free to d as they please, she is an adult, whether or not you like it is not really important, se has the right to be with whoever she wants.

Answer #4

not while im around (:

Answer #5

There’s nothing you can do - your mother has a right to live her life, and if this guy makes her happy, then in the end, that’s all that should matter.

Answer #6

Her life did not end the minute you were conceived. I know it’s hard, but she’s a human being. Like a real live person. With thoughts and feelings, desires and wants. She was alive before you were born. She has a right to be happy. And you’d think a child would want their parent to be happy. And not be selfishly thinking only of themselves.

Answer #7

Oh and give me a break. I’ve yet to meet a teen who didnt ignore their parents when they were on the phone with their friends. What makes you think only you have the right to complete a conversation in privacy?

Answer #8

im not being selfish , it’s called cheating k .

Answer #9

Probably the same reason you are here! :)

Answer #10

You’re childish, your opinions of your mother’s relationships shouldnt matter to her whether youre her child or not, she’s is an adult, you dont ge to decide what’s okay for her t do and what isnt.

Answer #11

They are separated, it’s not cheating, they are legally married, but theyre not together.

Answer #12

Good answer, I like that

Answer #13

mind it .

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