Let him stay or tell him to go?

So my boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago because of his messing. talking with other females, and in between that time I moved into a new apartment and I told him that I didnt want him to live with me because he was not ready to be faithful to our relationship. We have 2 kids together and my daughter loves him dearly, lately he has been staying over with us, and I am starting to think, he is getting comfortable with being there. I dont want him to think that everything is okay between us because it’s not. But its hard when we have kids to keep him away at times, should I tell him to back away alittle bit and give it time?

Answer #1

Our kids our 2 and 3 months, and its hard for my 2 yr because she is so used to seeing him and when he’s not there, she crys to see him. my son does really know whats going on since he is so young.

Answer #2

I would say for him 2 back away how old is your kids if there in there teens I would say let them go an hang out with him for a day but if you dont trust them have him meet you up some place were he will not b in your house I dont blame you with something like that if he love you or your kids he would give you atless a month or 2 2 think about if you want him back in your house my best friend gave in on something like that an know she is not speaking or anything 2 him but the diff between you an her is she was living with a rapest so yeah but just make him wait… ooo an my friends she is 20 now she was 18 when all that went down you need someone 2 talk 2 talk 2 me I dont mind

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