Is it going to hurt while having my baby??? I'm a teen

Hey, I’m 14 and I’m turning 15 in september and I am 4weeks pregnant. I’m wondering if it’s really going to hurt to give birth to my baby??!! I’m really scared!! I need advice.

Answer #1

I am 27 years old and 39 weeks prego…I could not imagine going through pregnancy as young as you are, but it is too late to preach to you about your age. Of course having a baby is going to be painful, but in the end you will have a whole new life to care for and forget about the pain. During pregnany, you will experience a lot of things nobody ever talks about. Like how tired you get, the morning sickness…that can last ALL day! I have pain in my ligaments that make it hard for me to even get dressed or turn over in bed…it feels like I am ripping apart! I pee constantly, I have pains that I didn’t even know existed! Oh and the baby kicks so hard sometimes…it is not comfortable at all…and when he kicks your bladder…that is whole other story! But it is not all that bad either…when you hear the heartbeat with every dr visit it is amazing, or when you see the ultrasound! Don’t be scared about the pain…every time you stress your body you are stressing out that little baby inside of you. Look up info and buy some what to expect books…they are helpful! Be sure to take care of yourself!! Hopefully you have a good support system with family and they can help you too. But remember it is not about you anymore…you have to think about that baby now!!! Good luck!!

Answer #2

im thinking it would hurt. because evryone is like screaming in the movies.lol. but I don’t know .hope you and your child will have a great life together . good luck.

Answer #3

Hello,

My name is Keisha. I'm 29 and I had my daughter at 15/16. I know its scary  but God wouldn't put you through anything that you cant bare. its a pain that happens so quickly that youll soon forget when youre holding your bundle of joy. When after giving birth you get some sort of amniesia. Trust me you will never remeber the pain.
Answer #4

…you will probably experience NOTHING as painful as childbirth.

Answer #5

wow your only 14!

well…having a smaller, not completely developed body frame could probably make the labor process a lot harder than if you were older…

I have never had a baby..but im just assuming lol…

just get a lot of medsss :) good luck

Answer #6

Of course, giving birth is painful you cant expect nothing less. I’m nearly 17 weeks, I’m not scared yet but I will be when the time comes.

Answer #7

Ah, generally that’s not good for the baby. Some are okay but overdoing it can be dangerous. Your right Step, But once you feel that pain Omg it hurts like hell… your going to wantin the meds…I didnt want to use the meds but once All the pain started to kick in I was screamin for the medds …Trust me I just had a baby 8 months ago && if your the type of person who hates pain your going to want the meds givin birth is no f-ing joke.

Answer #8

I am now in my 22 and week of pregnacy. Ofcourse it hurts, however you should be buying books to read on what to expect and what your choices are. There is pain relief by drugs being adminstered, there is also meditation, Dullas, and other choices available. And is some cases a women does not have a chance to get med’s because she is to far into labor, So yes I was told it is the worst pain ever.

Answer #9

I had an ex who had a baby at this age. She ended up having a c-section because your body’s really not fully developed at this age. Thankfully the c-section cuts/scars have come a long way since then. You’re in luck, but in a sense, you’re not in luck. Also, due to your age, you’re more likely to have a preemie baby. Again, you’re body’s not developed enough to handle that kind of role, yet.

For your sake, I hope your parents help and the baby’s daddy stay. Otherwise you’re in for a long and rough road ahead. If you need emotional help or comfort of any kind, feel free to FunMail me. :)

Good luck and congratulations.

Answer #10

duh what do you think it will feel like…lol

Answer #11

no, it tickles.

Answer #12

just get a lot of meds

Ah, generally that’s not good for the baby. Some are okay but overdoing it can be dangerous.

Answer #13

well I am 13 about to be 4moths preg and I was scared to but not no more all you should think of is of the baby coming out good conitions and healthy=D GOOD LUCK

Answer #14

yes its going to hurt like hell … butjust put your trust in god … you will get through this … have faith … I will pray for you … good luck … : )

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