Im 14 and pregnant what do I do and how do I tell mom

Sadly this happens a lot. Technically, (not being mean) it is your fault. If you consciouslly had sex, you and the guy are responsible for the child. However, I know this must be a scary and trying time for you. First off, begin taking Folic Acid pills. All the doctors say that they help prevent birth defects. Just sit down with your mom and explain to her that you have made a mistake but you are willing to take full responsibility for it. Do not try to say it wasn’t your fault, unless you were raped.

Make an appointment with the gynocologist immediately. This is very important to the health of your child.

You will have to face the truth that you are going to have a child in 9 months and there is not much you are going to do about it. I would wait a few days and go talk to your mom in a calm manner.

Most of all, concentrate on keeping yourself healthy and in good spirits for your baby.

Good luck with everything! Sam

Don’t worry I won’t judge you. Its not like your the first girl to get pregnant under age. Its a common thing nowadays. Don’t listen to anyone that judges you. They don’t have a clue what their on about. I’m sure if you tell your mum she will be understanding. She will probably be more upset than angry. Your her little girl and she just wants you to be safe. She’ll be glad that you’ve told her instead of hiding it away. Trust me.

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you will take half the blame im not tryna judge you but you did lay down with him it takes two not one to make a child … if your mom knows that you are not responsible enough or too young (which you are) she may have you get an abortion…but then again she may punish whether it be grounded or keeping the baby…she may be excited because every mom wants to be a grandmother but not too soon… try telling her what if and see how she reacts shell kinda figure it out if your looking guilty

She CAN NOT force you to have an abortion or give the child up for adoption!!! Remember that it is your choice and your body!!!

Have a regular conversation with her and when she starts laughing at something slip out your pregnancy and tell her your side so she can support you through this. She outta understand.