I need serious answers, for a big problem,thats quite serious.

u have to tell her. its WRONG what hes doing/did to u. thats really messed up. tell her and she’ll do everything she can to fix it. I promise. thats so friggin sick. im sorry =[

You should tell your mom. I would be much better. But then she might not believe you because she loves him, if you have any proof that might help but I doubt you’d have any, maybe if he trys to abuse you again you could film it somewhere in secret then theres proof. I have no ideas sorry that he did that to you. he’s absoutely a deranged bbaaassstard.

I would tell your mom. Your stepdad MAY draw the line at trying this with his own children, but there is no guarantee, and the fact that you said it stopped about a year ago worries me that he’s lost interest in you because he has a thing for little girls, and you are now too old to appeal to him. If so, who is he looking at now??? My fear is that is might be one or more of your younger sisters.

If your mom does not believe you, keep trying. Sometimes mothers don’t want to believe such things, but it’s important that you work hard to make her believe you, because your younger sisters MIGHT be next.

Also, ask your mother about getting counselling; you might be handling what happened to you well, but you need to talk about it…these things almost always come back to haunt you down the road. sometimes talking to a stranger helps.

well it wont ruin you and your moms relationship im pretty sure that she just wants her children to be safe

the longer you wait the harder and it so happens its going to be by christmas but you should just maybe get her alone like some how go on a girls night out or just ask when you step dad isnt home

but maybe start talking about rape or something to ease in the subject then tell her what exactly happened

you guys will probably go from there I hope it helps it will be hard but it will feel good to get it out of your system

and just get it out sooner befor later

the same happened here.I went to the police first and they arrested my step dad and I went home with a police officer and told my mum.it was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.u need to tell…really you do.it will make your relationship with your mum stronger not weaker and it will do you a lot of good to

first I would like to say I am so sorry 4 u! sending lots of healing prayers your way. My daughter told me her father molested her at 4 we were fixing 2 get married and buy a house no one beleived my daughter but me. I hurt so bad 4 her it made me sick and hurt so bad 2 know she had been hurt by someone that was suppose 2 luv her. Save your other siblings from what you went through. it might be hard at first but it will help you start your healing process. Let God be your strength. If you would like to help a 12 year old heal feel free to call I’m sure she would heal quicker knowing she’s not alone. xoxzoxoxoxox E-mail address is susieqsrescue@yahoo.com e-mail me if ud like I’ll send our phone number if you would like a friend or a little sister you could help. God bless u & your family!