I'm 14 and I have had a girlfriend for 5 months but shes so prude!

I have had a girlfriend for 5 months now, she is my age and she trusts me and is extremely comfortable with me. We have known each other for years. She really really likes me and I feel the same way for her. I always tell her im not gonna pressure her into doing anything she doesnt want to but the problem is she only lets me feel her up over her SHIRT. we have made out plenty of times but she doesnt want me to feel her up because shes scared of the next step, which I have assured her a hundred of times isnt even in the picture- which its not.. what do I do?

Answer #1

its not all the boys fault. if they have been going out for 5 months and want to be serious with him then she shud step it up. she shud think of him and his needs

Answer #2

Mabe shes a guy jk there is just some girls that wanna keep there virginity for a bit longer than guys we just wanna loose it as fast as possible so just wait till she says ok

Answer #3

Respect her.

She doesn’t want you to feel her up, yet you’re complaining that she won’t let you.

So, are you really reassuring her? Doesn’t sound like it…sounds more like you’re trying to trick her.

Answer #4

There is NOTHING wrong with her. She was just brought up with morals, and self respect, unlike a lot of other girls out there. You are VERY shallow calling her prude. What she is, is smart! Theres NO law/rule that says a girl owes her boyfriend her body & soul. Especially at 14!! If your expecting to “get further” like all your friends, then I suggest you find yourself a girl whos easy. (which really isnt hard to find these days)

Answer #5

yes, it is normal for a girl to be like that. I was like that for years when I was younger. its just new and scary. eventually she will get over it. she does trust you. and knows that you respect her. if she was really that upset about it, she would have broken up with you. also, its none of your friends business what you two do. if they ask simply tell them its none of their business so they dont assume you havent gotten any and you arent leading them on to believing a lie. girls get VERY angry when guys lie to their friends. Keep it on a need to know basis.

Answer #6

nooo believe me, like seriously believe me I ALWAYS reassure her. even when I feel her up over her shirt I ask her if shes comfortable with me doing it every time! I swear I always respect her and reassure her. I tell ehr all the time idc about that stuff because I like her to much for that whichi do. im jsut wondering is it normal for a girl to be like that? all my friends have gone s much further

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