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I'm afraid my girlfriend is gonna cheat

Okay, so I’ve been with my girlfriend for about three months and I’m completely in love with her and trust her completely. But I’m always worried that she’ll leave me or cheat on me like my first girlfriend I fell in love with did. I don’t think she would and she says that she wouldn’t and I believe her, but there is this part of me that doesn’t. Why do I keep thinking this?

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Answer #1

If you’re afraid that she’s going to cheat on you or leave you, then you don’t trust her. You need to realize that not all girls are the same, and she isn’t your ex that cheated. I know how hard it is to trust someone after that, but you’re gonna have to learn how to before you lose her. Relationships can’t last without trust. You think that because you believed the first girl when she said she wouldn’t hurt you and she did anyway.. Just forget about your past relationship and focus on this girl… she’s given you no reason to believe that she would cheat or leave you.:)

Answer #2

Because it happened to you already, try trusting her a little more, I know you said that you do but if you fully trusted her then you would not be thinking it. Try to pretend that other girl didnt do that she no longer exists, because you cant let it follow you around or your relationships will fizzle out because she will eventually get sick of not being trusted for what another girl did.

Answer #3

yeah but what if you love this girl more than anything and you do what people say and pretend shes not the girl who hurt u… and she hurts you and you feel that heart throbbing agganizing pain again when ever you hear her name your stomach turns.. when ever you see her your heart pounds and you feel sick.. what about all that how are you suppose to forget all that pain and allow urself to b volunerable once again

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