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Am I confusing attraction with love?

ok so i have a problem … I’m dating someone yet i have feelings for another guy, however i am 100% loyal. id rather break up than cheat… It gets more complicated… the guy that i have feelings for, is a bit older than I’d ever consider dating (he’s 19 or 20 while I’m only 16) but its just so hard to stop liking him cause he works for my parents and he gives me signs that he likes me as well, like when my friend is playing around with me and calls me negative things, he always sticks up for me and i always caught him looking at me in only a way that someone that likes you can look.. he’s always at my house and its uncomfortable because i am physically attracted to him in a way i have never been before. In addition to liking him, i love his mother and she also works for my family. I can’t keep avoiding him my imagination is going so wild thinking about him im confusing attraction with love !!! i can’t tell my parents or else he and his mother will probably get fired… what should i do?

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Answer #1

I have a little different slant on it. (Figures I would) What you are going thru is a healthy teen infatuation with an older guy. Nothing new here. But I would tell your mother that you think he is really hot and that you have problems keeping your mind off of him. You have a good relationship with his mom too so you could say something similar to her. Neither of them is going to loose there jobs over it. You may want to try to avoid being alone with him and throw gas on the flames as it were. If he wants to ask you out he had better talk to your folks about that before you and he do something underhanded. Good Luck Gino.

Answer #2

Keep it to yourself becos not only is his job on the line here but also his mothers if you start up anything and then you get caught. Unless you know everyone will be fine with you 2 being together then id keep it under wraps.

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