I hate my moms boyfriend

Hes so mean to my children ..he takes money from my mom … Hes been with another women and my mom took him back..hes a liyer …and my mom is always on his side ..he trys to keep her from me and my brother …I love my mother she is a hard worker and always has been hes making my life hell I hate him..he talks bad about my family in front of my kids …what do I do? I am about to go crazy please help?

Answer #1

Tell your Mother what your concerns are. Be polite, but firm. Let her know that under no circumstances will you or your children come over to visit her while he is there. Let her know that she is not welcome at your family’s home if he is with her.

Stick to it.

She may be a grown woman, but that doesn’t mean you have to accept her dating an asshole and it certainly doesn’t mean you have to subject your kids…HER GRANDCHILDREN…to that jerk.

It may take some time, but hopefully with some tough love, she’ll realize that you, your brother, and the kids are more important to her than that tool.

My wife went through a similar situation with her mother several years back when she got back together with my wife’s biodad who had walked out when my wife was a baby. When my wife found out they were back together, she flat out stopped talking to her Mom. It took almost 6 months, but her Mom came to her senses and dumped the guy and she and my wife are the best of friends again.

Good luck!

Answer #2

You need to be straight with him tell him to keep his dmn mouth shut its your family and if he sees somthin wrong with your family whys he here, tell him to worry about his own family and quit actin rude all the time in front of your kids he aint runnin sit around there you and your mom are

Answer #3

Treat him like he treats you. talk about his family like he talks about your family. 2ndly leave your kids with someone you trust and punch him in the face. one of 2 days in will be worth it. 3rdly watch some of tyler perrys films you’ll learn stuff from it.

may not b the best advice but I hoped I helped.

Answer #4

I HEAR YA SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE PUNCHING HIM SO BAD ..I DONT LIVE WITH MY MOM I HAVE MY OWN FAMILY..ALL I WANT IS MY MOM TO SPEND TIME WITH ME …

Answer #5

juss one they when he comes and starts talkin sh!t you take your children out of da room come back slap him and curse at him and tell him that hes verii disrecpectful adn that your mom doesnt diserve a jrek like him!!hope that helps good luck!!

xoxo-ashley

Answer #6

I know how you feel, my father is the same way. Well I would talk to my mother about it and tell her that hes bad and what hes doing. make sure you get proof. my way would be to secretly getting back at him. making him feel unwelcome as possible. I know its hard. Its sad when such a good person falls for a scumbag.

Answer #7

YEA.. I LOVE MY MOM I WANT THE BEST FOR HER ..SO HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH IT?

Answer #8

Where your kids are concerned, just tell him flat out that he will not speak that way, and you will not have them around him if he doesnt stop… As for your mother, you cant do anything… She’s a grown woman… the more you push, the more you will push her away… Unless he’s harming her, I’d just stay out of it… It hurts to see someone you love being used, but she’s an adult…

Answer #9

THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE..I AM GOING TO TRY IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS

Answer #10

THANKS …I GUESS I WILL HAVE TO LEAVE IT ALONE

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