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How can I make some real friends?

I go back to school tomorrow. In 8th grade I hanged out with a group but they didn’t like me and I din’t like them. I know I could hang out with othere groups in my class but they all think im a retard exept 1. Well she is the really careing, easy going , nice type just way over done. And if im a loner in 9th grade she will propbably come and sit with me or something. I don’t really wona sit with her. We just don’t go together. Amin if I just say crap she look at me as if I just murdered someone kinda thing. I like her but I couldn’t sit with here at lunch and break every single day. I don’t really wona be a loner but I don’t know what else. I can’t sit with people who I don’t get along with. I am a social person but have no friends at school. And I’m sick of trying to make friends because I just get rejected. I nevr fit in since I started going ot kindergarten.(well at leats I had some friends back than). Anyway I don’t know I would tell her that I cant sit with her. Please help me

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Answer #1

This year in school, concentrate on paying attention in English class and the friends will come later. People will like you much better if they can understand you. Be yourself is always the best advice. Instead of trying so hard to find friends right away, discover what are your strong points. Concentrate on what YOU have to offer others. Like-minded indviduals will eventually seek you about. People will want to be around because you will have confidence in who you are and fight the desires to conform just to fit in. If you don’t want to be a loner, when someone does approach wanting to “hang out” don’t be so quick to push them away. You would not want that to happen to you. People like to be around indivuals who are secure in their own skin. Decide to become a leader. You can do it. I have confidence in you already! You seriously need to pay attention in your English class, as well as all of your classes. School IS about socializing and having friends, but the most important thing about school is your EDUCATION! Good luck this year.

Answer #2

The rule to have friends is to just be yourself if you be yourself and make sure not to be a bully the first person you meet just say hi and see if you have any classes together and by the time you know it youll have enough friends to count on 12 hands

Answer #3

just hang out with the people who your most likely to get along with. good luck!

Answer #4

Worry about school. And if she is there to be a friend, why not be friends with here. You dont have to spend every free second you have with her, and she could always introduce you to other people. Join school activities.

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