I dont wanna kill my baby

I told my guy I was pregnant right before he told me his stomach cancer had progresses and that he only had a few weeks to live. He didnt want me to have to take care of the baby on my own, Im an 18 year old college student, and asked me to get an abortion. I really wanted to keep my baby too, but there wasnt anyway I could have gone through with all of that without him, so 2 days before he died I had one. It killed me emotionally and weakened me physically, but in the end it was probably best.

Tell her that if she wants to go through with an abortion that you are afraid it will effect your relationship and hurt everytime you see her because you will be reminded of what she did. She is your girl IF she loves you she will take your wants and feelings into consideration.

You would have to take her to court, but previous cases have all ruled in favour of the woman’s decision.

Well it isnt your choice. Since you dont have something growing inside of you, you back off and let her decide what to do. Maybe you should have thought of this before you had sex

well you should have thought of that before you got her pregant. its 100% her choice now, you cant tell her that she has to have the baby. do you think your ready to be a father at 16? can you support it? dont you have more important thing to worry about like school, your future?

I think you should have a say in it if you want your child just because your a man doesn’t mean you can have a say in your child…But you should be wise in your choices,can you take care of it?,are you ready to deal with the responsibility. Dont ever let someone tell you just because you didnt carry the child that you shouldnt have a say in it I think thats BS.It is part of you too.

You have to both sit down and have a really long talk about this! An abortion is a major thing and can’t be taken too lightly. Have you asked her to consider adoption? I think it would be the best option for the both of you seeing how she seems to not want the baby and you do not want it aborted. Choosing to abort a child when one of the parents doesn’t agree can actually become a court case! You need to both come to an agreement that you are both comfortable with and what you think would be best for the child! Not to mention your girlfriends health! The only time an abortion would really be nessacary is if the mothers life or her mental/physical health is at risk. So please try and come to an agreement and don’t make dicisions that you will regret.

I wish you both the best. xx

It’s not your choice. she is allowed to kill it if she wants to. You are too young

You actually have 50% of the decision.I mean you are the father…You should give her the best options…Abortion is hard.Later on,she will regret killing it.Its a human being…