How do you get over losing your first child?

I am so sorry for your loss - you can’t redo or continue to live in the past - not easy but you must find a way (suggest strength through prayer) to forgive…for YOUR sake - I wish you every happiness here, forward.

I no how you feel. except for the women part lol. you just got to take time and talk to friends about what happened. it helps a lot. it might take a while to get over it but you will get over it slowly

You dont forgive someone for doing that. I would take some theraphy & maybe work as a volenteer with kids. Seeing kids will probably brighten your day :D

You have to stop blaming this woman for what happened - you won’t be able to move on if you remain angry and full of hatred. It must be so horrible to miscarry or have a still birth, but you can’t necessarily blame her - miscarriges happen. I don’t want to make it sound unimportant, because obviously it is. Allow yourself time to grieve, and then try for another baby if you want one. Of course you’ll never fully get over it, and you’ll always wonder what your child would have been like, but give yourself time, and don’t expect the pain to go away quickly. I guess only time can heal these things.