How to deal with a sister in law I truly dislike?

She is your husbands sister…my husband and I deal with our familys in different ways but when it comes to our sides mine and his I deal with mine and he does with his. Lucky for us it is only his were there have been issues and many issues I might add. My husbands sister does the same thing your SIL does she does it with men and her two year old son it drives me crazy but then his grandparents ar by far the worst to deal with so I pick my battles.

He needs to talk to her though because family or not your relationship is priority and if it is effectting that then something needs to change and soon.

Take us for example we just moved in with my husbands grandparents he was offered a better job and we need the money as we are going to have a baby girl in JULY lived here six months an it has been hell we are moving in JUNE…car accident has prevented us from doing it faster. But we get a car the end of the month thank GOD. SO his family is pissed and feels used that we are moving. we never agreed to stay here long at all too. yet they say we are being irresponsible they are always telling us what to do and how to do it with our lives and finances. it has gotten to a point were he refuses when we no for sure to tell them were we are moving too. It sounds mean but our marriage greatly suffers because of them they even goon about how they dont like our childs chosen name Zahara and then they dont think I should breast feed and our birthing choices and prenatal care I mean it goes on and on.

So coming from a marriage were in Laws can cause certain issues I say do what is best for you an your man an worry less or not at all about them

YOu can still have a good relationship with your MOther in Law I no I have a decent one with mine.

In all honesty, the best way to deal with her would be to not care so much about how she spends her money or lives her life. It is her life after all, not yours.

My sister is in a situation where she really dislikes her husband’s whole family. I can tell you now, her disliking them has caused them more troubles than happiness. In the long run, his sister always being someone you dislike won’t help either. She is, after all, part of his family. Although he may agree with you, I’m sure he doesn’t always want to hear about how annoying or stupid she is. I know I sure wouldn’t.

So.. accept her as she is. She isn’t perfect, neither is her lifestyle. But she is a part of YOUR family now. So try to work with her and see if this is something you guys can work out or work around.