How long does his dad need?

Maybe you shouldn’t try so hard..If you’re not being disrespectful to his parents then what’s the problem..If color is the problem then maybe your boyfriend should come and visit you…The only way the color of your skin would be a problem for his parents is if they are prejudice.. and if that is the case..why are you going to their house..it doesn’t mean that you two have to break up, but why go somewhere and the person makes you feel uncomfortable…never go where you’re not welcomed…you don’t have anything to prove to anybody…you’re not sleeping with his parents…you’re sleeping with him..

If the details in your question are 100% correct and not all one sided (hmm, it does appear to be thou) and, if you have tried your hardest and this step-father refuses to accept you as the girlfriend of his step-son and your boyfriend is too gutless to stand up to his ‘daddy’ and stick up for his girlfriend, maybe it is time to decide whether it’s worth continuing with the relationship.

It’s impossible for one to tell you how long this behaviour from the stepdad is going cease, you either have to grin and bear with it, or say ‘bye bye’ to the relationship with your boyfriend.

The colour of our skin or your ethnic background should not be an issue here. As long as you love and is nice to their son and is respectful to both parents, they should be accepting of you. If the step-dad cannot see beyond this, then he is the one with issues not you.