How do I deal with my husband lying and hurting me?

Been with husband 18 yr’s. 3 yr’s ago my hushand went to the strip club and used debt! That’s how I found out! he knew how I felt about strip clubs from day one! he promised it would never happen again and that he would make it up to me! less then 2 weeks ago! came home feeling no pain and with lip gloss on his face! He said it wasn’t lipstick but didn’t know what was on his face?? the next day I looked at the banking and noticed that he took out 200.00 and came home with only 30.00 I got his ass out of bed and demaned to know what the hell happened? 6 hours later he finally told me he went to the strip club by “himself” again!! watched for 45 min’s and bought THREE! table dances.. I feel so sick to know that he invited, he allowed some bitch in my space! again he is making all these promises! of how he’s going to change! and will do whatever it takes to prove it to me! I’m so hurt! and sick and tired to his lies! I’m not sure if he gets the whole impact his action and lack of respect! what it does to me or how it affects me.

Answer #1

Well, Your husband is lying to you it’s entirely his fault. You could eigher talk to him and tell him how you feel or think about leaving him. Good luck!

Answer #2

well first off, the problem isnt the stripers themselves or “‘some b*tch”‘ as you call them this is entirely your husbands fault your husband is the one to blame not the girls dancing for money who more than likley dont even know the guy is married you need to talk to your husband again about this, how it makes you feel and how its going to end the relationship if he keeps it up maybe even get marriage councelling if again he says he’ll stop and doesnt leave him because he is not going to chnage, and more than likley is hiding other things behind your back

Answer #3

Get rid of him!

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