Help my husband lies to me everyday!

You have my husbands clone! I go through the same exact things! WOW! I don’t really have an answer but at least we can talk together about the crap we go trough!

Wow I am going through the same thing right now 12 years of lies going to strip clubs casino cheated 6 times and so many unexplainable things~I am a stay at home mom and its time to get a divorce for me he lies to my childrena dn makes them lie to me so I think this abuse is enough I no when I am ready there will be a man out there who will love me and dont have to lie~

my boyfriend was the same as these guys and then I found out he was using cocaine.that was what was under all the lies.he was off hanging out in places with people who did it too and where he could get it.be careful

Does he admit he is a liar? When you catch him? I think liars have no integrity and it is hard to have true love without integrity. I just broke up with my livein boyfriend of 2.5 years (we are 37 & 41). He lied about small things and large. I loved and still love him but just started to feel very lonely (like the relationship was a lie). My advice to you, if he does not change, leave him. It will be VERY HARD but you can do it. You do not want your son learning to be like that. It is better to have a peace of mind then to deal with that disrespect everyday.

This is sad, why dont you start going out? find yourself a part time job? play a sport? make new friends?

My husband lies about little things too. I just found a text message from a girl that he had programmed into his phone as a mans name. But he swears it doesn’t mean anything. He lies about money he spends. He always gets caught. I feel like he cheated on me with this girl. What do I do now?

I KNOW YOU LUV HIM, BUT YOU DON’T DESERVE THIS ABUSE… TAKE YOUR KIDS AND MOVE OUT…. YOU DESERVE BETTER, NOT AN IGNORANT IDIOT LIKE YOUR HUSBAND… NOT TO MAKE YOU SAD OR ANYTHING, BUT WHAT ELSE IS HE DOING THAT YOU DON’T KNOW OF??? IS HE CHEATING ON YOU??? HAS HE CHEATED ON YOU? AND HOW DO YOU KNOW HE AINT DOING IT ANYMORE??? YOU KNOW THAT AT THE STRIP CLUBS YOU WONT FIND NOTHING ELSE BUT HOES… WHAT ELSE IS HE DOING THERE??? IS HE GETTING SERVICES TOO??? WHAT ARE GONNA WAIT TILL HE BRINGS YOU AN STD???? YOU SEE…. LOVE IS BLIND. AND I KNOW THAT YOU LUV YOUR HUSBAND…. BUT THE QUESTION IS? DOES HE LOVE YOU??? YOU ASK YOURSELF THAT QUESTION…. AND IF HE DOES LUV U WHAT DOES HE DO TO SHOW U AND TO PROVE TO YOU HE LUVS YOU???? THINK ABOUT IT….

I have a liar too…lying, b s-ing and exaggerations is a normal thing for him- it will NEVER be normal for me! And every episode feels like another nail in the coffin of this marriage! Like you,though, Queen4aday, I love my home and my life,(except for his behavior) and I have wonderful kids who don’t know that he is a liar, and even though they do not have close relationships with him, they do love him. It’s impossible for me to respect him. I often think of us divorcing, but I don’t know that I would be happier, I would just have different struggles.

My husband always lies too. I just caught him, and asked him what it was he was going to do tonight, and without batting an eye…he lied. I looked on the computer regarding where he said he was going and why. It’s all fluff. I’m over it, I’m worth soooo much more. I don’t want my daughter to think that this is acceptable. Girls, we deserve much better, these men aren’t in a elite club where they can do whatever the heck they want. And at the expense of their loved ones, they lie, they probably cheat too. I think mine does, and then you have to worry about getting STD’s or worse.
Good luck ladies, I’m going to bail, I deserve more……….so do you.