How can I make my mom understand??

I’m sure there is a reason why your mother does not like him that you are not telling us.

You have to remember that you are a child. It’s your mother’s job to protect you, take care of you, and raise you properly. She most likely sees something in him that is dangerous or that could hurt you in the end. She wouldn’t be doing her job if she let you date and see someone that she did not approve of. There is always two sides to every story and since I can’t hear her side - I’m guessing he has done something to give her caution.

mandyloo is right you see I went through the same exact thing girl I feel for you my mom hated my ex so bad she would curse him out yell at him threatin him and all that till he left so I ended like this I packed my stuff and left I went to another state and my mom understood me then that nothing can break us up but then he did something really horibal to me and I came back home married and I held my mom and told her im sorry for not listening so just compramise with your mom or there will be no chance in my case I had to leave so think about it girl

YOU SHOULD TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL. EXPRESS TO HER IN A NICE WAY THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH YOUR boyfriend AND IF SHE THINKS HES BAD FOR YOU THEN HES YOUR MISTAKE NOT HERS. HOPE ALL GOES WELL!