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How can I make it work with my sons father?

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Hello! Can you please help with advise? I am mid twenties and have two children. My boyfriend is my eight month old's dad. We've been together for three years. Not married. Our realationship is pretty sour. a lot to do with no trust in him. Thats his fault because of his past lying and cheating. But not me, I've been truthfull and faithfull. Here comes the problem... I am not sure if life should be this way. I mean, I feel I should be happier with my man. There is a guy that has kinda caught my eye but then he moved away and that made everything easy. But, he's BACK! And he ask me to go out tonight to dinner and to see the firework show. I know I can't but I did think about it. It's just not right and I know it would ruin everything. I do love my boyfriend but like I said we fight a lot. How can I fix it or do you think it's over and I should get jiggy with my friend and hang out with others???