HELP!!! Girlfriend trouble!

Hey - if this girl makes you happy, then go for it, but here are a few things to keep in mind.

• there is so much that a person can experince between 13 and 15. Socially, intellectually, sexually and emotionally - neither of you are on the same level.
• have you ever heard the saying “half your age plus 7” It works, honestly.
• If you have sex with her - it is rape. She is underage… anything you do with her could be deemed as assult.
• Bottom line, no one can tell you who to date. But socially, it is not good for a 13 year old to go out with a 16 year old.

Yeah, just keep ignoring them. Don’t let them know its bothering you. I don’t understand why everyone would keep talking about it, why should it matter to them how old your girlfriend is? Its your own business. Nobody elses.

heh i rather ignore them or give em a bloody nose (i have a big strong fist) or do somethin to keep their mouth shut

Oh man… what drugs are you on, brentblack? :P slash90, I’d suggest neither messing with the mothers, nor going for the bloody nose - that won’t accomplish anything other than get you into more trouble. Those kids are messing with you because they know you’ll get upset and they get a kick out of your reaction. If you do absolutely nothing and ignore them like they didn’t even exist, not even look at them, they’ll try to get on your nerves a bit more and then will just lose interest. But as long as you keep falling for their jokes, they will keep joking.

You know what ur doing. Ur letting some1 control whats going on in ur mind. If u really like this girl i don’t think u would be concerned or worried about what anyone else thinks. Obviously when that person brought that camera to school. He was trying to embarrass you and make u mad. And if you let him make u mad ur basically giving him what he wants. He wouldnt know how 2 respond if everything he tried 2 do u didnt pay no attention. I mean anything. Trust me IT HURTS THEM MORE WHEN U JUST IGNORE.

Some members of my family got married to other people who are 10 years younger/older than them. So wtf is wrong with 3 year age difference? As long as you’re just giving friendly little kisses without tongue then I don’t see the problem. If you love someone, you love them. None of your differences should get in the way. And about your friends - they can go jump off a bridge. Trust me - there is absolutely nothing wrong with this situation. As long as you keep it G-Rated. You gotta remember she is only 13.. Barely starting puberty.

I’ll give you some advice from a grown up direction. My neice is 13 yrs old, and if I found out she was even kissing a 16 yr old, I would hunt him down, and beat him to within an inch of his life! When you look for advice about dating a girl that young, keep in mind that even Romeo and Juliet were 17 and 15. Your friends are right to give you problems for dating a little girl that has barely had a few periods, and still is not ready to use a tampon!