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Well... I'm a 15 year old girl, and I have never had a boyfriend, but it feels like most people have. I just get really nervous around guys, especially ones I like. I just feel all tense and shy and can't think of anything to say. I'm pretty average really, but I guess that I am just focused on my schoolwork and exams at the moment. But I just feel like I will never get a boyfriend, and that no-one is going to be interested in me. I just have really low self-esteem. But then, if I think about it... I don't know any adults who haven't been in a relationship... So are the chances are that I will get a boyfriend eventually? :) Thanks in advance !
im only 13 i have boyfriends ! and its not that great at all !
youu cant focus on your work , and thats what really matters !
youu always end up getting hurt !
makes youu depressed !
and they are so much drama !
they are good at 1st , but they never work out the way you think they will !
anyway if youu really want one !
dont be as shy , youu dont have too be pretty! i dont class myself as pretty at all !
but im nice , funny and confident ! thats all you have to be ! being confident is a big part to getting a boyfriend ! and just be yourself ! youu dont have too be really out there and loud ! but dont be afraid to talk to guys ! or guys youu like ! just be confident around them , and dont be as shy ! good luck ! x
i used to have the same problem until i loosened up a bit just smile , be friendly , ask him questions and try keep the conversation flowing along ! but dont annoy him to much! dont try to hard if you like him , just act like his friend , make eye contact , laugh at his jokes ! and if he likes you he will eventually start chasing you , if youu have the guts invite him to too thee movies or something with some other people that you both know , and get to know him more! and dont forget be yourself ! :D x
I think you're fine without a boyfriend, seriously :)
Relationships can be so problematic and even though they're nice and all for a bit, it doesn't always stay like that. Eventually you're going to get a lot of guys asking you out and it'll be extremely bothersome of them all pestering you all day! Guys are very stubborn when it comes to girls so you don't have to worry about a guy not wanting you because when you find one that does, you're going to wish you hadn't said that. :)
Having a boy friend at the age of 15 is not a right stage.Better you concentrate on studies make your career first.When you complete your studies then you would be bit matured and can take a right decisiion whether a boy is important in yr life or husband my advice is to go for marriage.Because boy friends are for short period in our lives,as thay want to use us as dolls,when they feel they will play with our body and if not satisfied they throwaway in the dustbin.
At you're age, it's really not as great as it looks to be. Seriously, it isn't a terrible idea to wait till your an adult and in college: people are a little more mature and know what they want, somewhat less judgmental, and the relationships are probably going to last longer.
My ex didn't date anyone until me when she was 21. Just a fair example.
NO IT IS NOT NECESSARY,MY SISTER NEVER HAD A BOY FRIEND,BUT SHE WENT WITH THE RIGHT DECISION OF MY PARENTS AND THEY GOT HER MARRIED TO THE RIGHT BOY OF THEIR CHOICE,TODAY SHE IS QUITE HAPPY.SOME TIME WE FAIL WE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO TAKE RIGHT DECISION IN LIFE,IN THAT CASE BETTER LEAVE IT TO PARENTS.
It's not really like that in my family, or where I live. So no, I have no intention of leaving it to my remaining parent to choose a husband for me. I can make my own decisions. It's good that your sister is happy. But that's not a route I'm willing to take. :)
If you don't think about it, you will eventually find the right person, all of them girls you know who have boyfriends, they probably don't mean a lot. You are better focussing on your exams anyway, don't worry about it, the right person will come to you :)
I think that at your age and never having a boyfrined is great, believe with boys so many mistakes are made. Right know best thing to do is stay like that eventually the pearson you deserve and that loves and cares you, and probobly you wont end up hurt.
Finding a boyfriend (or girlfriend) can be very difficult for someone shy. Try not to worry yourself about it and just have fun. You are only 15, there is no rush. The right person will eventually come along, it can just take time.
I'm glad I can help, but seriously... They rarely ever give up... I suggest you pack some pepper spray just in case you can't emphasize your point enough :)
Thank you for the advice! I'm gunna really try to be more confident, especially around guys... But it's just so hard - I never know what to say! :S
Just take a spoon full of honey add bit of black pepper powder, dry ginger powder mix well and take three times a day.
Aww, thank you! Haha, that's such nice advice - makes me feel much better! Thank you! :)
But you're forgetting that every husband starts off as a boyfriend.
Not all.My sis never has hade a boyfriend and shes almost 17 now!
Don't look for the person, let them come to you :)
I didn't have a bf till 17 and we met online.
Thank you so much! Really good advice. :D
Thank you, I hope so! :)
