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Why am I bleeding after messing around?

okay me and my boyfriend were messing around today and hed he fingered me and like my cherry was already popped a while ago but today afterwards there was blood on my underwear and its hurting down there and like i just used this wipe thing and its still bleeding and stuff and i dont know what happened or what i need to do so can someone please let me know what this could mean?

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Answer #1

Many people have misconceptions about the “cherry” or the hymen.

The hymen does not magically disappear when something is inserted into the vagina, it will only stretch or tear sufficiently to permit entry of whatever is being inserted. If for example, a teen inserts two fingers into her vagina while masturbating, her hymen may still tear when she has vaginal intercourse for the first time, since the average penis is larger than her two fingers. A woman who has had vaginal intercourse may still have hymeneal tissue present; this remaining tissue can be the cause of pain during intercourse. If a woman’s current partner has a larger penis than her prior partners, or a couple tries a new technique or position during intercourse, her hymen may tear again, or for the first time. When doctors examine pre-adolescent and adolescent girls for evidence of sexual abuse, they look for injuries to the hymen; the hymen may still be intact except for a single tear. Remnants of the hymen are usually present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.

more: http://the-clitoris.com/n_html/hymen.htm

Answer #2

lol, “file finger nails”,,, well umm… you might just be having your period. If its not, and you know its not, and your still bleeding in the morning, go get it checked out ASAP. You dont want ya vagina to rot.

Answer #3

He probably needs to go alittle more easy on you. Especially if your hurting afterwards! Tell him to be more gentle, and make sure his hands are clean!

Answer #4

hahahaha omg, gotuho0ked21 just told you that you dont want your vagina to rot

Answer #5

tell him to be gentel!!!

thats the way my bf started now he uses 4 fingers no lies

Answer #6

might need to file the fingernails…

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