How do I calm my nerves before my guy friend wants to mess around?

Well my guy friend is about to come over in the afternoon and this is the 4th chance im going to have to “mess”around and what not. But everytime he comes over my nerves take over and I make up some excuse not to!! and then I get upset afterwards when he leaves because I really do want to mess around!! And im sure hes going to stop even trying soon… any answers for me??

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Answer #1

I agree with both Moe and garyswife. Both have given sound advice for you. Especially if the guy would leave over something like that. You’d be totally miserable pleasing someone else and not yourself. The list as to the reasons why is endless. The statement made by garyswife with regards to the nerves not being a problem if you’re ready, I feel is very true. Just care about you before going and giving of yourself to someone who isn’t worthy. Really important..like, respect yourself and always trust your gut.

Answer #2

Actually, it is a big deal.. If you aren’t completely comfortable with the idea, then you aren’t ready.. Maybe it’s more than your nerves. You shouldn’t worry about him not trying to come over anymore. If that’s all he wants from you, then maybe it’s not a good idea to get involved with him. If you really do want to do anything, do it. Just make sure you’re making the right decision for yourself. :)

Answer #3

just calm down and tell yourself this is not a big deal. start by just kissing, its a good foundation for playing around and can lead to anything.

Answer #4

THanks guys!! That sounds right to me. IT helped make my disicion and yall are right I dont think im ready for that.. Thanks again!!

Answer #5

Yes, it is a big deal. If you’re nerves are getting to you that bad, then you aren’t ready, no matter how ready you think you are. Just slow down. You will have plenty of time to mess around and everything. Just because you don’t mess around now when you are really young, doesn’t mean you are a bad person. Don’t let him force you into it. Just wait until you are fully ready. When you are, your nerves won’t be a problem.

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