How do I calm my nerves before my guy friend wants to mess around?

Actually, it is a big deal.. If you aren’t completely comfortable with the idea, then you aren’t ready.. Maybe it’s more than your nerves. You shouldn’t worry about him not trying to come over anymore. If that’s all he wants from you, then maybe it’s not a good idea to get involved with him. If you really do want to do anything, do it. Just make sure you’re making the right decision for yourself. :)

just calm down and tell yourself this is not a big deal. start by just kissing, its a good foundation for playing around and can lead to anything.

THanks guys!! That sounds right to me. IT helped make my disicion and yall are right I dont think im ready for that.. Thanks again!!

Yes, it is a big deal. If you’re nerves are getting to you that bad, then you aren’t ready, no matter how ready you think you are. Just slow down. You will have plenty of time to mess around and everything. Just because you don’t mess around now when you are really young, doesn’t mean you are a bad person. Don’t let him force you into it. Just wait until you are fully ready. When you are, your nerves won’t be a problem.