How can I deal with my depression and trust issues?

Okay, ever since my pass and what has happened to me, ever since then i been depressed… it’s always hard for me to trust another guy… I broke it off my bf bc I was afraid of falling in love and not to get hurts again.. Besides that I was molested by my cousins bf and I had this bf that we was together for two years and he just treated me wrong..I want to be with bf but he told me to take my time and think about how I actually feel about him… Smh idk what to do I’m afraid to see him and just to brake down crying even doe we was together for a week but we knew each other since August first day of College.. What should I do ? Please I’m afraid to see him this morning in school

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Answer #1

You certainly had a very painful past and your experience has marred your relationships with all your boyfriends. This current boyfriend sounds very supporting and I think you should give him a chance as he is giving you time to decide if you want more from him. Not a lot of guys would be willing to wait for a girl and the ones that are willing to wait, are worth keeping…..Unfortunately, I cannot give you any advice regarding how to give over your molestations by your cousin’s boyfriend but if this is eating into your relationships with men, I suggest you get help or perhaps have a chat with a qualified college nurse (if there is such a thing over there in the US).

Answer #2

Thank you .. At least someone answered.. He wants to have a talk tomorrow and I’m kinda worried about what he has to say..

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