How to get better self-esteem?

Hi Fau,

You must remember that you are unique. God only made one and you are it! Your self esteem will always suffer if you compare yourself to others. American defintions of beauty change all the time. Superficial beauty will change in time and the people that are being admired in that way now, that really don’t offer anything else, will be critized when their beauty fades. Internal beauty (who you are, how you love, how you share your joy with others) is what people will remember about you when you’re gone.

Don’t focus on your looks for a while. Sit quitely and make a list of the things in your life that you are most proud of. This will help you see your true value and great beauty. Talk to people that you trust and ask them what they think of you. Of course you have to believe them. Share your joy.

much love, ABB

hair doesn’t have to be long, some girls look a lot better with short hair. and well why would you want to be lighter. being tall isnt a bad thing. and a chin is a chin lol. somedays I wake up and think ugh I’m one ugly biatch but other days I think I’m really pretty. getting treated for low self esteem with my thearapist and all she keeps saying is I’m a really beautiful girl. maybe you should take some pictas of you and put them on here then ask…it can’t be that bad that you need cosmetic surgery.

Aloha iwishiwasbeautiful ,

You are beautiful just the way that you are you look perfect in the eyes of God and he made you just as you are for a reason and thinks very highly of you, you are wonderfully an fearfully made.

I took a look at your other picture though, and there is nothing wrong with the way that you look you are beautiful mix really.

I use to have bad self steam and then I realized that what I think is not what matters and what God thinks about me is what matters.

I also realized that either way I am a good person and I would rather be a good person then beautiful an a B..TCH if you know what I mean.

Now I dont think I am super beautiful but I know I am not ugly and that I look how God wants me to look.

May you find your self, Mia

1.I do that too 2.How can you hate juicy Lips, I load of girls I know would die for them?!