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Deaths, can't stop crying

I lost my grandad two days ago. I feel like no one thinks I care because I don’t let my emotions show, I only cry when I’m with no one else. When I have a laugh at school with mates, I feel bad and I suddenly make myself not have fun anymore. I’m so sad that it has happened to him, And whenever I get the chance, Whether its lesson change overs, going to the toilet, when my friends look away, I will cry. Sometimes I just can’t hold it in and will just cry with my closest friend with me there.

The main problem is though: I can’t stop feeling guilty for laughing when I do, or having a bit of a life. What should I do?

Is it normal to act this way.. or am I just being kind of heartless?

I dont know, because my sister crys and talks openly about her feelings |:

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Answer #1

I think that would be normal because you probably feel like you could have done somthing to help him but I have no right to say you were anyway you shouldn’t feel so guilty thou if it wasn’t met to happen then it shouldn’t have but it did you can change that and I think all that would matter to you grandad when he died is that you cared

Answer #2

I feel like that sometimes. I hate that! well if I were you I would just not think about it 2 much because it will make you sad everytime!…im sory about that too…

Answer #3

your grandad would not want 2 see you all sad all the time. you have 2 rember all the good times that you had together, when my grandad died a year ago and cry so much and know I think of all the good times that me and him have had and they make me smile my grandad wouldnt of wanted me 2 be sad and I am sure your grandad wouldnt want 2 see you sad

I hope this helps

xx

Answer #4

oh i lost mine june fourteenth 2009 and the sad thing is he didnt get ton see me turn fiffteen i did the same thing and i thought that to but i asked them if they cared an d guess what they did

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