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My mom and dad got devoriced when I was three and I took it ok. When they divorced I sawmy dad every weekend and tuesday but then I started school so tuesday stopped but I still saw him every weekend then he met his wife and he only took me every other weekend then every other sunday now the first sunday of every month. My stp mom hates me. She doesn’t like me at all her and me dad have fights because my dad wants to c me and she doesn’t. When ever im around me stp sistes she gets them Away from me. I don’t like her I try ton nice but she isn’t. On feb. 11 it was my b day and he didn’t call. I wanna stop going to c him. Im afraid that if I tell hm that he will never c me again. He has put me through so much pain on my bday I cried myself to sleep b/c he didn’t call. I don’t really wanna go with him. Do you think it’s a good idea or not if so how can I tell him. Btw I will only c him if he cs me without my stp person ( rightnow I’m sooo pis*ed I’m not going to call her “mom” plzzz help please

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Answer #1

You should tell him how you feel about him and your stp mom

Answer #2

you should stay in contact with your dad. call your dad see what he has to say. also talk to your mom… you need a mother when you go through something like this.

Answer #3

U should tell him how you feel…I know how you feel…my dad gave all 3 of my bro’s xmas presents and I didnt get anythng..Me of all my bro’s not includn my stp bro I don’t know what he got..But im his only daughter..sooo..yea..until I told him how I felt about it I was pissed up until abou 2 weeks ago…Just tell him the same way you explained it here so that he can see how he slacked off…I feel since your stp mom don’t like you tell your dad you want to spend quality time with him..Just you and him…I hope this helps because I know how you feel…

Answer #4

I think the overriding factor is, he’s the only Dad you’ll ever have so you can’t give up - However you choose to do it, I’d make sure he knows exactly how you feel and recognizes, for whatever reason, the two of you are being pulled further apart and you don’t want that - I would tolerate her if I HAD to - to hold on…I wish you the very best and much happiness !!

Answer #5

sorry 4 the errors I m kinda really upset

Answer #6

ohhh yea I have an AMAZING stp dad and mom not stp mom

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