Why do my dad and grandfather argue about things that happened 30-40 years ago?

haha, i like how its so simple and true!

Sad..maybe it’s egos, who knows..hope they’ll put it in the past & forgive before it’s too late….

Tell ‘em it was 30 or 40 years ago, and they should have settled it before then, not now.

They r men and dont know how to let things go.

I agree with Gabby we men can only keep stuff locked up for so long or just dont like it when i person brings something up that we just dont want to hear or remember

It’s nothing serious, they aren’t mad at each other over anything. :)

LMAOOO at these girls talking about guys not knowing how to let things go. I get things brought up from multiple girls on a daily basis about stuff from years/months ago. Girls never let things go, don’t get it twisted. And I don’t know about ur dad and grandfather, but since they’re father and son, you can’t blame them, it’s a family thing

It’s not like they yell at each other & get mad or anything like that. Like they will be talking about a certain event, and argue over the details, like when & where it took place & stuff like that. Pointless stuff & it gets on my nerves ;)

old ppl like to live in the past

That’s for sure, they both talk about the past every day. I hear that is common for people once they start getting into their 30’s & 40’s. :)

they maybe stuck in the past but old wounds always come back maybe they arnt over it or just like the old times better

They aren’t bitter at each other over anything. It’s not over anything bad that happened, it’s over insignificant little things :)