Should we take our friendship to the next level?

ya me and this girl have been really good friends for about 2 years bestfriends at that. but ya me and this girl are really close we never seem to date people and we cant ever find someone we really want to be with.. but we talk almost everyday about life and etc. but it seems like we like eachother but i cant seem to tell.. we flirt all the time and when she talks to other guys i seem to get mad or it seems when i am talking to other girls she is always asking me why are you still talking to her etc. But i know i have had attractions for her in the past and she has had the same for me too but i dont know if i would ever want to date her because we are just so close if we ever were to not be friends after we broke up i would want to just kill myself because she is just such a great person. i mean i love her to death she had helped me out in life so much if we didnt have what we have now..i would never be the same.. we always are fighting like we are a couple when we dont hangout…i cant ever make a first move on her because i dont know if she feels the same about me but can anyone please help..

Answer #1

Hmm. This is a tricky situation. I been there done that myself..It turned out as sour as a lemone in tha end. YOu have to think about this cause your relationship definietly wont be tha same in tha end

Answer #2

do what you feel you need to do . if you like her a lot i would totally go for it since you guys sound like a perfect couple. but if it dosent work out you guys can still be friends its not as hard as it sounds

Answer #3

i’m in the same situation. idk if i should go out with my best friend either. im just worried about our friendship

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