Is it weird that I don't want to dance or date the guy I've had a crush on for a very long time?

Here me out guys. I DO want to dance with him at the year end dance. And I DO want to date him. But to me, he could do a lot better. I’m not saying this for people to be like “no you’re good for him! Don’t fool yourself.. Blah blah blah”. I’m just saying this. To me, he’s really popular and good looking and really funny.. And also really athletic. Which I’m hardly anything like. I’m just average and pretty out of shape xD. And people keep telling him to ask me out and dance with me at the year end dance (which my friend is making him). I dont want to though! He doesn’t like me that way, so I’m my mind that’s just not fair. Plus people telling him this just makes everything awkward! Ugh. So is this weird? Do you think I actually like him? I mean I’m pretty sure I do but I dunno what you’d think. What should I do about everyone telling him this?

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Answer #1

lol you do like him it is just that your friends made it weird. look for an opportunity to talk to him and hopefully make things more casual between the two of you. it is possible to have a crush on someone but not want to be in a relationship with them

Answer #2

Aw hun don’t ever say you’re not good enough for somebody. If you do want to date this guy then maybe you should ask him out! Don’t let anybody force you into something you’re not comfortable with.

But yeah maybe try and talk to him or hang out with him first, then if you feel more relaxed and happy around the two of you talking then ask him if you want to! Go with what you feel :)

Good luck! Elle Xx

Answer #3

Its not weird. You could just be shy or confused about how you feel. Just hang around him then things will come clear

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