Would a guy mind if I guide him a little bit?

This is yet another of the oh-so-familar boyfriend/girlfriend questions which Fun Advice seems to flooded with. Please take the time to read the whole thing, you have my thanks.

Me & my boyfriend sometimes muck around & take turns of telling the other what we want them to do, (It may sound silly, but it’s kinda fun), eg. I want you to kiss me on the check etc). After some making out & some general touching with my boyfriend I placed my hands just above his pants on his skin, where he took me by surprise & told me that ‘I could put my hands down there if I wanted’. After a little bit of discussion he told me he was using his turn & wanted me to put my hands down his pants. He could obviously see I was hesistant & unsure (as I was unsure if he was just telling me to because he thought I wanted to), so he told me that if I didn’t want to then not to do it, & that it wouldn’t make him like me any less etc. I did do it, after him moving my hands down there I decided it didn’t bother me, though I was quite content to stay outside his underwear. He then goes to me ‘Do you want me to do the same to you?’ I just gave him an ‘I don’t know, If you’d like’ so he put his hands in my pants. Then he put his hands in my underwear which I was not so okay with, he tried to go further but it hurt & I stopped him. Also he had no idea what he was doing so it really wasn’t working, It didn’t feel good at all.

If you were a guy would you be annoyed or anything if your girlfriend would let you in her pants but not her underwear ? would it put you off ? Also if the girl kinda guided your hand in the movements that feel good would that make you feel uncomfortable or weird you out ?

Has anything got any helpful advice ? besides comments about age (I’m turning 16, & he is 16) & how it may or may not be appropiate for my age group. I know my limits, & I know what I am comfortable with & have already decided I don’t plan to go any further then I want to.

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