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Will I get my ex back?

hi Im am 24 my ex is girlfriend is 20 my ex broke up with me a month and a half ago,she said the reason being is because we use to fight a lot,which we did and that she doesnt want that stressfull relation anymore,but she says she only wants a future with me and that she will do her best to come back to me.we been together for two and a half years.for 1 month after breaking up we still saw each other and did everthing a couple would do (sexualy).she also says wants me to be her best friend because she likes talking to me and she misses me way too much.I would like to know will she come back to me?do i have to be her friend and show her that things can and have changed or should i just give her that space and let her come back to me on her own?

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Answer #1

I absolutely disagree with thisgirl! You are NOT still a couple just because you still have sex. She is only using you sexually without the commitment. You guys dated for 2 1/2 yrs. She is just being nice, without trying to hurt your feelings. Listen to what she is telling you. She broke up, because you fought alot, and she doesnt want all that stress. She wants a future with you, and will do her best to come back to you? Are you planning on waiting for someone who may NEVER come back? Sounds to me like she only wants to be friends with you…at least if you two fight, she can just walk away, because there are no strings attached! You two obviously are NOT a healthy match, because of the constant fighting. Shes letting you know shes had enough. Maybe shes looking for someone better suited for her, and if that doesnt happen….she just may fall back on you. Are you willing to be sloppy seconds? Go out and live your life. Dont live your life for your ex. Let her know that you will be fine, and you can survive without her. I suggest that you break yourself away from her sexually, as she is sending you the wrong messages.

Im not being harsh, im being honest.

Answer #2

DAMN IM IN DA SAME SITUATION…KINDA BUT ITS MY EX DA ONE DAT BROKE UP WIT ME…WE KALL EACHOTHER BFFL…BUT I WANNA BE HIS GURL MO DEN ANYTHING…BUT FO RIGHT NOW WE JUS GOTTA CHYLL ND BE FRIENDSZ…SO JUS CHYLL ND SHOW HER THAT U CHANGED ND DAT YALL WONT FIGHT NO MO…SHE WILL NOTICE THAT UR TRYING TO WORK THINGSZ OUT..

Answer #3

Apparently, you guys are actually still together. Just not “official” so yeah who cares if you’re not labeled. If you act like a couple, you’re a couple. No need to be labeled as gf/bf. And yeah, sounds like she has already come back to you. But you should always still give her her space without making her think you’re ignoring her.

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