Why would he ignore me on a social site if he stares at me in person?

There’s a guy from my school who I recently started to like. Last year he used to stare at me in the class we had together. I liked another guy at the time and he never spoke to me (despite the fact that he’s very outgoing) so I ignored it.

This year we have no classes together but I found out that we had several things in common. I wanted to ask him about it so on Valentine’s day I was giving lots of people chocolates and I gave him one. I asked him about the main thing we have in common and he responded really well to me. After that he would look at me in the places that I do see him day to day.

I decided to talk to him on a social site so I just said hey and nothing happened. I tried again later that night and nothing again. I decided it was a stupid thing to do and it hurt my feelings because I can’t stand being ignored. I’m also embarrassed to see him next week at school. I decided that I’m going to pretend it never happened but still. Why would he do that?

Answer #1

“hey” is a really bad pick up line, you are now playing short handed.

should have asked a question “is that your real hair colour?” or “did you get that shirt from guess?”

But, to answer your question, it’s because he is being a wussy. He is weak, and he wants to talk to you, but he cant.

I highly recommend you dont go for him because he seems like he has a lot of issues, I might sound unreasonable, but if a man wants you and can’t talk to you or not even responding your msg, why bother?

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