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My mom and my sis are being mean they’ve been like this ever since I was 13 I’m 15 now. My mom grounds me for stuff my 20 year old sis does I’m grounded rite now. I wasn’t really listening 2 my mom and playing my ds when she was watching tv my sis grabbed it and gave it 2 my mom. She always tells on me. I was watching a are movie online. Just because it was from the creators of saw I got grounded for a month because my sis told on me. I asked her why she always does that. She said because she feels guilty. I feel like my mom loves my sis more because I always get in trouble most of the time for what my sis does. I have 2 clean every day. Like for ex. I can just wake up 2 my mom yelling at me 2 clean the living room, kitchen, maybe bathroom. My mom doesn’t yell at her like that. One time my mom says when your 18 I’m gonna kick you out. Why are they like this. Just because I make a few mistakes does that make me a bad person?

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Answer #1

well I know where yur comming from because my mom and ii were really close but now all of a sudden my brother rats on me for the dumbest things the best thing I can tell you is do what your mom asks of you and just try and stay out of her way to avoid problems hope ii helped

Answer #2

I’d try sitting them down and talking to them, dont do this in an attacking demeanor cause then they most likely wont listen just be calm and express how you feel. It sounds like your family is just overloaded and stressed so they take it out on other people. and No you are not a bad person for this.

Answer #3

you’re not a bad person.. everyone makes mistakes. don’t let them get you down, just learn from them.. and I think your mom is just stressed out, let her cool off some and see if it gets better. keep your head up hun

Answer #4

No that doesn’t mean your a bad person :\

Answer #5

no you are NOT a bad person mabey your mom is stressed out and your sis is just a butt.I don’t know,but you are not a bad person!

Answer #6

I think that there is something that you are not letting us now. A mom does not go and tell a kid that he/she is grounded for no reason there has to be a good and logical reason.

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