Why is he still doing this game if hes involved with someone else?

Me and my ex are ‘friends’. I say ‘friends’ because to be honest I still have feelings for him, but of course I don’t tell him anything. Anyways he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend but he does something really weird.he keeps on telling me he will never love anyone like he did to me but I told him I can only offer a friendship to him(I really want no problems with his family and girlfriend) but on a social site on tuesday he posted two picture comments about ‘us’ and that I can count on him for everything and that he adores me [I saw it as friendly] but he ruined the comment writing the date when he and his girlfriend started dating. On the other comment [on the same pikshure] I have my boyfriend tagged on my lips and he wrote ‘I would ask you for a tag but I guess someone won my place already…:( :( well I guess its ok… Lets see next time…’ that didnt sound friendly to me at all!!! Im really confused he says he lovesss his girl, but he still has the pikshure of me on his profile and the about me I made him…which is strange beacuse his girl has a a social site… Im confused, does he really want to be friends only?? (like I said I really have feelings still for him) I dont know what to do.. Hope you guys can help me out :(

Answer #1

IM IN THE SAME SITUATION!!! anyways…I think he still likes you were you his first love??? if you were ofcourse he aint gona forget you. fun mail me for more info.

Answer #2

I also think he still has feelings for u. if you really find out that he wants you back, you should go back with him. but for now, he seems to kinda like you AND his girlfriend, so I would just continue being friends with him

Answer #3

I think he still has feelings for you angie, but I think hes trying to let go by having another girlfriend and giving her the attention he’d give you if you wer still dating. it surely is confused and to be honest I don’t really understand your question fully, but you know I am trying. to be completly honest, I say he does like u, but I think you can’t really do anything apart from talking about it with him, tell him he has a girl and needs to stop talking like he has been cus its confusing u. or sumthin

Answer #4

Because when he talks to you online and not in person, is like a little role playing thing going on, he gets to go back and be like he was and the flirting game he is playing is exciting him because he gets to be a bad boy with you and his girlfriend will never know. You are probably not the only one, just one of many. Is more fun for him to talk to you in that way than as a friend when online.

It does not mean he is gonna change his mind in real life and be with you. If it really bothers you, stop the game and be firm and tell him you are gonna tell his girlfriend.

Answer #5

that is confusing. maybe he’s just not serious with his girlfriend (or you). if he were, he’ll talk to you about it and not just write some vague comments on a social site.

maybe he’s flirting? or maybe he’s just comfortable with you like, he jokes a lot and stuff.

im not really sure. maybe you could ask him??

We may have different personalities too so this might not work. im pretty straightforward so im gonna ask him what he means and to delete it as I dont want trouble with his family and his girlfriend.

:| im sorry im no help. I dont know the answer for this too.

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