Why have I been going to bed crying the last few nights?

Me and my boyfriend haven’t really talked on the phone much. The other night he told me he didn’t want to talk because he was watching a movie. When he dropped me off at my house today, he promised me we would actually talk tonight. What do you know? We didn’t really talk, hardly at all. We talked a little bit, not a real conversation I’d like, and then we’ll be like “We’re not talking. I’m going to get off.” What am I supposed to do? After we get off I started thinking about not really talking on the phone that much anymore. Let me get a taste of his own medcine. He hardly talks on the phone anymore, so I’m just going to be the same way. Now I’m sure you’re going to say that’s dumb, or whatever..but its what I’m probably going to do. Is it okay for couples to not talk on the phone often?

Answer #1

Its not good for the relatin ship you should tell him how you feel and you probably feel a bit rejected because of the way he treated you. Thats not right for a guy to do that to you,

Answer #2

why do you go to bed crying? because your upset, you want to talk to him, you want him to talk to you, and it makes you feel sad when he says hes watching a movie and doesnt want to talk because you think “hed rather watch a movie than talk to me?!” its okay for couples not to talk on the phone, but they need to be talking to each other somehow comunication is one of the most important keys to every relationship you need to be able to talk to each other and tell each other how you feel so even if you dont want to tell him about this about how not talking is making you feel hes not a mind reader so he wont know unless you tell him then you can take it from there

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