Why does my mom & everyone get mad if I date a black guy ?

Like I’ve been with this guy since feb.9.09 & I really love him like it really hurts that nobody wants me to be with him & I know im kind of young but I know I’ve found the love of my life & I know this by the way he makes me feel when we talk & his touch , I love him soo much & no matter how hard I try its impossible to get over him .

Answer #1

Does color matters.

Answer #2

Well the peopple are jelous and rasist srry to tell you that truth lol but yea

Answer #3

Okay this will be hard but you have to pick your family or him its going to be supper hard but I think its what you have to do if talking to them doesn’t work.

Answer #4

Who cares if your family does not approve? Will you let them rule you when you are an adult? Will you continue to let them judge who you love? Be rebellious! Love who you love, it’s the matter of your happiness, not theirs!

Answer #5

You do not have to pick between your family and him. Your parents are ignorant. Flat out. They just believe in old ways where color defines a person instead of who they really are. Just let your parents know that they are being racist. It isn’t a pretty thing to be accused of but they will figure it out once they hear it. I hate to have any family member judge because of race and I always get on to them for it and sure enough they straighten out. Let your parents know what they are doing and ask why color makes someone who they are. They won’t be able to answer. Then hopefully they will leave you alone and not be so judgmental.

Answer #6

They get mad because of all the stereotypes about black men! I’m Mexican and I’m dating a black guy (he’s half white, too), and I love him with all my heart! I’m young too, but I know I want to be with him forever.. I say you just listen to your heart! It’s not about making your family happy; it’s about making yourself happy. If you’re in love, you shouldn’t care about what others think.

Answer #7

Not to be rude or offensive but maybe your parents are racist.Im mixed so I have never been opposed to dating outside my race.More power to u.I wish you well in your relationship

Answer #8

well its pretty clear here you DONT wanna pick sides you just want everyone to accept your boyfriend. no drama, no bs, none. well have you ever dated a black man be4? it can b b/c they are not used 2 that kinda thing. and im bosnian & my parents want me 2 marry a bosnian man just b/c how bosnian people r. but anyways, talk 2 dem ask them y? and b as right as much as you can…I mean they’re gonna have 2 suck it up…[:

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