Why: does my dead friend hate me?

My best friend was diagnosed with lukemia at the age of 14. She missed the flight for the people to people program trip to australia and I had no idea why, until I came back and was informed as to what happened, that she had cancer. For about three out of the four years of her fight, we lost touch and I wasn’t there for her, but when we bumped into each other at age 17 and 18 we hit it off again and were closer than ever. I was there when she thought she was cancer free, I was there when she relapsed and had cancer again, and I was there to push her in her wheelchair and I was just…there. But before she died she promised she would every once in a while let me know she was still with me. Its been a year and nothing. I cried all night and told her I was sorry for the three years I wasnt there, that I was too young and confused at the time. The next day, the friendship bracelet she gave me broke, I could fix the chain but the charm that said friends and the heart were gone. Just gone. I know its a silly thing to obsess over, but has my friend left me, for good? Am I a dissapointment to her? Does she hate me now?

Answer #1

Look for the positives. If I were coming to a conclusion from that, it would be that she’s watching over me, and the bracelet breaking is saying “We’ll always be friends but you need to move on now.” Don’t think of negative meanings for the signs, try and look for positive ones.

Answer #2

ok, I’m srry about your friend. I think you should know though that dead people can’t talk to you. She might have just been trying to comfort you by saying that. Also, IT IS NOT YOUR FALT that there is no “sign” that she is still here. I’m almost positive that she dosn’t hate you. If she did when she died, there is no way she can now…becuase she is rather in Heaven or Hell, where all humanity emotions and needs vanish.

Answer #3

I does not hate you . You were there for her when she needed you to be. Forget the years you were not there. In the end you were with her. MAybe she still does watches over you. And the bracelet thing could either be a coencidence or maybe it was her wa of saying she was still there for you and she does not want you to be heartbrokened. Whatever it is , she does not hate you. Especially not after everything you had done for her.

Answer #4

I think you may be paranoid. dead people cannot take or break your bracelet. im sorry you may feel that way but it is impossible. spirits can manifest and be visible to you but they cannot pickup and break things

Answer #5

Maybe she went to a place that she cant reach you from, a much higher level from us humans. If you believe that she was a good enough soul to be able to be in such a higher place, then id say to believe in that is the best idea, because if she didn’t hate you when she was here before she left you then there is no reason for her to change after she left.

Answer #6

Maybe she is watching you and is sad because you think she left you. I would buy a candle for her (or make it if you can) and carve her name into it. Then write a letter to her lighted by her candle. Write whatever you want to her, talk about all the good times you had or about how much you miss her. Then you can either:

Burn it in the flame and guide the smoke out the window. or Tie it with a blue (for peace) or white (for change and peace) ribbon and hang it in your windowsill and keep the candle till the next full moon where you burn it in the flame of the candle and guide the smoke out the window.

Now if you do the second option you can light the candle for a moment each night till the full moon to remember her.

If you have more questions feelo free to mail me ^^ Love and Light

Answer #7

I doubt she hates you. She could just be watching over you and moved on. You never know the circumstances. Just try talking to her every once in a while if you want and see if you can feel her presence. But I don’t think she hates you since you guys were so close before she died. And I doubt that she was the one who broke the bracelet. Most likely that didn’t mean anything. Things break all the time. Just try talking to her when you get the chance and don’t assume that she hates you. She could be with you more than you might think

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