One of my closest guy friends has been acting differently around me and I think im starting to have feelings for him. He has a girlfriend, but the way he acts around me makes me wonder whether or not he has a girlfriend just to have one, or if loves her but has strong feelings for me also. I would never to anything to threaten there relationship, they've been going out for awhile and I respect that.
Here are some examples:
- We've had a class together since freshman year (were both seniors) and always sit by each other and do projects together.
- He sits behind me this year, sometimes he'll play with my hair or write his name on my shoulder. He jokes around with me a lot and teases me, we make each other laugh
- He waits for me after class so we can walk out together, he tries to make it not noticiable but sometimes it pretty obvious.
- Last year, our teacher asked our other friend if we were going out ( he had his girlfriend at that time too) and I think our teacher this year thinks were dating too, sometimes he'll look at us talking and just smile and when he was absent, our teacher asked ME if I knew where he was. I said I don't know ( I really did know I just said the easiest answer) then our friend jokingly said "why not, isnt he your boyfriend?"
- We did a group project last year, and we had to make a music video. we did ours to "love story" by taylor swift. I was juliet and he was romeo. This year, I get a voicemail from him at 1AM singing "I am romeo and you are juliet" over and over and "its a love story baby just say yes". he's mormon, so it wasnt a drunk call. When I brought it up, he would joke around or change the subject.
6.We both play volleyball and he wants me to go to all his home games to watch him play. I missed 2 and both times, he said he was so upset with and kept looking for me in the stands. he says it in a joking way, but apart of me feels like he may be serious.
7.We talk all the time in class, and online too about anything at all.
- He called me babe a few times the other day, hes never said anything or called me anything like that before
he's always been a flirt, and I try not to encourage anything but it has never been to this extent. What does this mean?!? is there something deeper going on or is it not the big a deal?