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Why do guys disappear when things are going so well dating?

Well I was seeing this guy daniel. Things were going so well getting to know him and we went out on a few dates and we got along so well. I could really open up to him and tell him everything and I thought he felt the same way. So on valentines day I went and saw him, went on a date then I stayed the nite at his place because I was too tired to drive back home. We fooled around a bit, but we didnt have sex. I left the following day, but since then I havent heard from him. Usually he was always so keen to talk to me he would txt me every day and we would talk on msn every nite. But after spending the nite at his place he just disappeared from my life. I didnt hear from him. I got sick of being ignored so after a week of unanswered calls and txts, I left a post on his a social site wall saying exactly what I thought of him. The following nite I went on a social site to see that he had deleted me from his friends, which really hurt. At least he saw the post tho which is what I wanted. So the question I want an answer to, is why did he just suddenly disappear from my life when things were going so well?

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Answer #1

Wow, talk about a jerk. I don’t know why guys do that even though I’m a guy myself. I think though that because he couldn’t get what he wanted out of you he simply left you. Its harsh I have to admit that but hes not worth your time. I think its best to move on and learn from this petty mistake. The strangest thing about guys (realized this a while ago) is that guys can look at a girl one day and be amazed by her and the next have no feelings towards her whatsoever. Its a complicated thing really, if thats the case then he is doing it too avoid prolonging the pain that he might cause you. If he does comeback to you (which I hope he doesn’t) then don’t fall for him so easily. Be on your toes with him, its better to be safe then sorry. Better yet, don’t even let him back in your life.

Hope this helps.

Answer #2

I wanted to write a few things and suggestions, but Hysterical have taken everything out of my mind… so to give a fellow guy a thumbs up I gotta say I totally agree with Hysterical ‘’don’t fall for him so easily’’ You’re a nice person, and some guys tries to take advanges of that and then leave ya be if they don’t get what they want… but don’t let it scare ya… there are more faithful and devoted guys out there who won’t be like this.

Answer #3

aw, thats igonert! I know how you feel, I’ve been hurt by guys a lot. Hes not worth your time.

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