Why can't she understand how I feel?

About 4 months ago my girlfriend went out of town . And the first day she was gone she cheated on me . Now I forgave her because I care for her , but now we are having problems Because I don’t trust. Now She asks me all the time If I trust her and I tell her no and she get mad at me . And she always ask me why I just can’t let it go ? And move on with are Relationship. And to tell you the turth I’m scared to trust her , but I do want to be with her .Why can’t she understand that ? Or is it my fault for not fully forgiving her ?

Answer #1

some people are able to forgive their partners but I think even those few people never really forget and in the back of their minds will always have a trust issue of some sort. she showed no respect for you and if I were you I would find someone new.

Answer #2

If you cant trust her.. then dont be with her. TRUST is a KEY foundation to a good working relationship..

She should understand why.. but if you cant do it.. then dont waste your time.. I dont blame you for not trusting her.. I wouldnt either.. But has she done anything to show you that NOW you can trust her? Has she changed? If you dont think so then you need to move on to bigger and better things (Some one who will be loyal, that you can trust) Once someone betrays the trust.. Its often very hard to go back

Answer #3

forgiveness is good but never forget, stay strong man, if she gets mad at you for something she did then she is not worth it at all Fk that st if she doesnt understand

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