Why aren't I content with what I wanted to be?

Why aren’t I happy? This time a year ago, I had the image of how I want to be, now I’ve made myself that person. And I’m totally miserable, I wanted these people to know me. I wanted a few guys chasing after me. Now I’ve got all of that. But why aren’t I happy with it now? I know I’ve turned into a complete C* with all my “friends”. What can I do? I have no idea what to

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Fantasy is often better than reality, you did not really define what you wanted. It is one thing to want to be desired and quite another to be desired by someone desirable, the image you had in mind may not be the image you achieved especially if you are being mean to your friends and isolating them, you are not happy because you have tried to be someone you are not instead of enhancing the wonderful person that I am sure you were. BE YOURSELF and make changes that improve who you truly are and not what you think you should be ;)

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