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Why am I attracted to older guys?

I am almost 14 I’ve madeout with multiple guys, and they’ve felt me up. The oldest guy I’ve been with was 18. Almost all the guys in my grade are so immature, and I don’t like that. I move on to a lot of older guys. I’m afraid I’m going to get myself into trouble with them.

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Answer #1

just be careful you know them really well, you dont want them to take advantage of u, as most older guys would.

Answer #2

Well a lot of girls your age are interested in older guys because as you said the boys their age seem immature to them (which at times they are!). I don’t think it’s wrong for you to date older guys but as you said yourself they can be trouble so you just have to be careful not to let them influence you into doing stuff you don’t want to do. Remember that the older they are the wiser they are into manipulating you so just be aware and trust your instincts. Of course as you grow older you’ll also be attracted to boys your age so don’t worry to much about it.

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