Should I take back my ex who's cheated on me 4 times?

Sure if u like gettin cheated on

Hmm, I dunno. Should I jump in front of a moving train? Or maybe swallow a liter of bleach! That seems intelligent.

The answer is flat out NO. Once a cheater, always a cheater. The first time, alright, it was his bad and you were right to give him a second chance. The FOURTH? That’s just stupid.

Her, I mean. For some reason I didn’t read the name and assumed this was asked by a girl O.o awkward.

No. If she cheated on you 4 times, she obviously doesn’t care about your feelings. Don’t waste time on someone who won’t be gentle with your heart. You deserve better than that.

hah i ok thanks connor

NO. 4 times, seriously? She obviously doesn’t care about you, once is bad enough, to do it three more times? She’s obviously not learning from her mistakes or doesn’t care to.

1st time shame on her, 2nd shame on you, youre @ 5 amigo do tha math bro

Should you play Russian Roulette with a hand gun instead of a revolver? Probably not.

i don’t agree with the statement, once a cheater always a cheater or a leopard never changes its spots. but 4 times is ridiculous i can see making the mistake once and her regretting it and learning from that mistake and proving to you that she wanted to be with you but she obviously doesn’t care about you if she is so willing to be unfaithful. so my answer is absolutely not!

i guess if you want to be cheated on again

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Get over her and find a better one because she’s making you look like a fool.

Well, under normal circumstances, I’d say no. But if you think she’s completely changed, and is a whole different person, then yes. I don’t agree with “one a cheater, always a cheater.” People change. If anyone says they don’t, they have no idea what they’re talking about. But since there’s probably no reason to think she has, no. I don’t think you should.

How could you say “once a cheater, always a cheater”? Do you think that nobody can have an epiphany?

1 in a million, maybe. If the chick was okay doing it once, why wouldn’t she be okay doing it again?

How could you say that? You think it’s impossible to have a change of heart? Or maybe it’s just cheaters can’t have a change of heart. Either way, you’re dead-wrong.

Well, the simple answer is, because she’s learned why not to do it again since.

As a Christian, I’ve seen countless truly terrible people come to the Lord and repent from their sins.

Survey says , wrong answer.

hmm from all the answers im gonna tell her no thanks guys

No i’m not. If she cheated 4 times why wouldnt she cheat again? Change of heart? Lol a little late.

Um. NO.

So you’re saying that if a guy cheated on you four times and then had a change of heart and you were sure of this, you wouldn’t take him back?

That must’ve been nice. Good for you. I’ve seen people say sorry for their mistakes as well- doesn’t mean I’ve seen them change their ways.

Hell no, he -ucked up 4 times, a little too late.

no, it wouldn’t be a good idea

no, it wouldn’t be a good idea

I wasn’t talking about saying sorry. That’s not what “repent” means. Look it up.

Holding what someone’s done wrong against them after they’ve repented from their old ways is nothing other than a form of vengeance. It does nobody any good and hurts you more than him.

dude i cant beleive ur even asking that question dont even answer her tell her to get out of your life hurt her it will teach her a lesson and by hurt i dont mean beat her up i mean hurt her feelings cause she treated you like garbage

dude it wont cause if she cheated on him 4 times ur rule does not aply dont get me wrong im all into forgivness what u said would be apllied if she cheated on him once he forgave her an other 3 times so im sure that she isent trustworthy what u said might be right it can hurt us more than them but it will hurt even more if you trusted them again and screwed up for the 5th time

Its Best Yuh Dnt Becuz Then Its More Likely She/He Will Do Itt Again Buhh Then Again It Depends How Much Yuh <3 Tha Person To Actully Stay By Thm N Learn Frm Mistakes.

Its Best Yuh Dnt Becuz Then Its More Likely She/He Will Do Itt Again Buhh Then Again It Depends How Much Yuh <3 Tha Person To Actully Stay By Thm N Learn Frm Mistakes.

Dude please hop off.

going into the relationship and starting off fresh the 5th time around isn’t a good idea, when will she stop? if what you’re looking for is a committed relationship then the games should have ended after the first mistake!! repeating the same mistake and having her get away on cheating with you that much shows that she no longer has love for you!

I will but only because you’ve gone beyond reason.

Robert…. as a fellow christian I do believe people can change…. however, I don’t think Luke should take her back because it teaches her nothing. If he keeps taking her back she thinks it’s ok and will continue doing it. If she was to change, Luke can be the beginning of her change, but he can’t be there for when she does.

I’d say no…. it teaches her nothing. She cheated on you 4 times and you kept taking her back. She then gets the idea where she can do whatever she wants and you will always be there. By taking her back, she doesn’t have to reap any consequences. I’d say no… for her benefit as well. You can forgive her…. probably best you should so you aren’t harboring any unhealthy feelings towards her. However, you can’t be there anymore.

I’d say no…. it teaches her nothing. She cheated on you 4 times and you kept taking her back. She then gets the idea where she can do whatever she wants and you will always be there. By taking her back, she doesn’t have to reap any consequences. I’d say no… for her benefit as well. You can forgive her…. probably best you should so you aren’t harboring any unhealthy feelings towards her. However, you can’t be there anymore.

It depends on how she sed sorry. If she sed sorry @ all

It depends on how she sed sorry. If she sed sorry @ all

Obviously, if she really changed at all, she won’t think it’s ok and continue doing it.

If she was worth taking back, she would have learned already.

(See my last comment to Connor’s post)

She may not be worth it to you…. or anybody right now. But if you put your foot down and say this is unacceptable then she will one day be worth it to somebody. Not you because you will have found better.

she cheated on you for reasons in my head she seems like a ho* i know u may like her alot or even love her but somone that unfaithfull does not deserve somone who is faithfull u can probubly find a much better girl i wish you luck but i would not take her back!

No, if you love being cheated on, go ahead, but if you do, thats just ierd. I would advise it, as I’m sure other people would back me up, if someone’s cheated on you four times, don’t take them back or you would hurt so badly. Unless you want them to cheat, go ahead!

I wouldn’t, he’s cheated too many times for it to be a mistake. Usually when someone didnt mean to cheat on you or they are truly sorry for it they dont do it again. But it seems to me that he is going to continue doing what he wants because you are saying its okay by going back to him. I would not go back to him. I am pretty sure there are other guys out there who would love to be with someone like you. He is definitely not the one.

NOO

Do pigs fly? No.

Once A Cheater , Always A Cheater ^.^

No because if he did this 4 times what makes you think you can trust him after this? If you take him back again then it just excuses him to cheat again because that tells him he can get away with things. No if I were you I would move on and find someone who is going to know the real meaning of fidelity and being faithful to someone they’re in a relationship with.

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She doesn’t want you. Once you’re in a relationship, unless it’s open, and you even attempt to be with somebody else, just break up. There’s no excuse for cheating. You should have left her the first time.

I’m sorry , but everyone is telling you not to. But they don’t know how you feel about this person. I went back to my boyfriend , we have a lot of history together and I can’t help but think only about him. He fell inlove with me when I didn’t wanna give him a chance. I made him wait 6 months to get back with me. Everyday he’d ask me out, and everyday I’d say no. But if he truly loved me he’d stick around even if I cussed him out. Which I did and he stayed and now we’re together. But if your ex proves to you that they won’t hurt you anymore or anything then do it . You only learn from your mistakes not from “ What if’s “. It’s a big chance to take but everybody deserves to show how they really are and how they feel. What I’m tryna say is , just follow your heart and don’t listen to anyone on here. They’re not in your position to be saying no. You might even ignore them and go back to your ex, who knows ? Just.. don’t be afraid to take any risks. You only have 1 life, live it full of mistakes so you’ll know what not to do again.

no don’t waste ur time on this dude 4 times. 5 is just aroud the corner don’t do it

no not worth it. my ex cheeted on me 3 times and after 2 years he tried to tell me that he wanted me back but i turned him down. seriously not worth you time if your not worth theirs

That’s not always true people can change if they want to, but those who continue to cheat don’t appreciate their relationships.

why wld u wanna get bak with them???

No. Who’s to day he won’t do it again. If you let him back, he’ll know it’s okay to cheat, cause you were easy on him the last FOUR times.

NO!!

Should you stand inside a lions cage while wearing a belt of raw meat….not your best choice

well my ex did that and if another guy does it he probably just wants to be friends

well my ex did that and if another guy does it he probably just wants to be friends