Who's guy will I spend d rest of my life?

Who’s guy will I spend d rest of my life w/? D young 1, or d old 1? I am working in a night club. I am a poor girl. I met this young filipino man 3 weeks ago now, at my work d time was his last day in phils. . He had 2 go back 2 london, wher he liv but on his last day we decided 2 start a relationship & made promises that we will keep in touch & he will come back 4 me after a yr. . No plans yet but he’s making promises that he will help me & he wants me 2 change 4 a better. We’re chatting everyday. Anyway I have a chat mate, 40 y/o, black american. Divorced & have a kid w/ him. He’s coming 2 mla. This valentine’s day 2 see me 2gether w/ his daughter. He wants 2 marry me. I dont know who will I choose. I really like d young man, but d old man, I know that he really likes me. He’s sending some money w/o even seeing me even on webcam. He doesnt know about my work. I really want 2 help my family. But of course I like d young man than d old man but I dont want 2 b poor 4 d rest of my life. Pls help me! Pls help me!