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Pick and choose commitment I don't know what to do!? ok well this is what im confused about. well ok I have a boyfriend who I adore and care for very much but he treats me good and things are ok but when I look into my future I dint see him in it because I feel that he isn't as committed as I am. so when I see my future I see my ex boyfriend and well I want to have a family and I want to have kids and etc. and the guy I am with now he doesn't and isn't ready to settle down and well...
I think to myself that maybe if I just stay in the relationship a little longer then maybe he will open up too me and become more dedicated.
but then I have my ex that is willing to get back together with me and be supportive of me and etc. and well I don't know what to do because my current boyfriend he is so caring and kind but he doesn't sow me that much commitment. and when I get wanting to break up with him I cant do it something is holding me. but my mom told me I had to make a dissions and that would choose the path of my life the
guys I am dating now well we have only been dating for 5 months and it is like I just want to prove to him and his family that I am the one for him. but then my ex we were dating for 6 years and we had a really bad relationship but then it was also good. so this is my last chance to correct my life and choose who it is I want to be with and yet I say these things to my ex that I still have the
desire to be with him then yet I cant break it off with my boyfriend now because somthings holding me and I dont know what. its like I wanna see were me and my boyfriend lead to. I want him to want me more than I want him I want him to give me his heart. he says he is scared that I will let him fall. thats what keeps me in our relationship now because I want to prove that I wont do that to him
Additional Details and my ex boyfriend he does love me but my present boyfriend the noly time he says I love you is when he is drunk and I dont know what to think
its funny how your going through the same problem that I am but here is what you should do ...I think you should stay with your current boyfriend my reason for saying that is you should not jump out of a relationship just because your old feelings came back for someone you say you dont see him in your future now but who knows what is going to happen what if the day you deciede to leave be the day he tell you that he loves you and he want to spend the rest of his life with you . just give him some time to get his self together
