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So I love this girl I almost with her for like 2 years but right now I am seeing this girl we used to go out but I still love her too we are basically friends with benefits. but I still love my ex that I love for 2 years. I am atracted to both of them the same I don’t know who to choose. please help ?

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Friends with benefits is not a durable, stable, profound relationship. it is as said, friends with a bit of sex thrown in. Before tossing away your two year relationship, figure out if you think that this friendship can grow into a real love relationship, (I.e.:you know the kind where you forgive your cheating girlfriend because she really is the love of your life!) Also attraction is not the sole basis to a relationship, there has to be mutual feelings and trust as well as a will to sacrifice and a desire to build something solid no matter the obstacles. If you aren’t ready for that then you aren’t ready for a serious relationship.

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