Whats the right way to hurt him?

Oh good, your welcome hun anytime. Glad to hear he was ok about it. Just dont get drunk this weekend and make out with him again!! lol have fun

The first thing you need to do is take responsibility for your actions, drink if you want, your aloud, but stop doing stupid things and then blaming on being drunk, you new wat u were doing so you cant blame it on being drunk, it just sounds like you needed someone to hook up with and he was just there and you no he likes you, so you took advantage of his feelings. Not nice! Now you need to talk to him, becos its not fair you keep leading him on, he deserves to find someone who will love him and treat him right, tell him that you are sorry you made a mistake and hooked up with him. Tell him you only want a friendship and nothing more and stop getting drunk and hooking up with him!!! you are not being fair to him. And make sure you say sorry!

locoluna thanks, even though your message was pretty harsh….it actually helped me out alot…cause ya your like 98% right!!!!!! So i have tried calling him but he hasnt answered his phone, he is grounded for awhile so i think his cell phone got take away…. ALSO “hooking up” where i live is DIFFERENT then what you guys think it is…hooking up is mostly making out, and going a little farther and stuff….but NOTTTT SEX…I am a virgin and i just dont want you all to think i sleep around!!!

OMG ok i just got off the phone with him I told her i was really sorry for leading him on, but i dont want a relationship right now…and he was SOOOOOOOOOOO COOL ABOUT IT he was like ya its fine dont worry about it….but we are still friends right? and i said OF COURSE i really wanna be your friend cause your so cool!!

AHHH he is a sweetie!! I am glad it worked out

THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR ADVICE

Im glad i helped, sorry if i was a bit harsh, i just no how the guy would feel likeing someone and being lead on and then having your heart broken and feeling used. Its not a nice feeling thats all. And i never thought you slept with him, hooking up is the same here, it means just getting with, pretty much making out and touching and stuff, i got that. Just dont break peoples hearts becos you just want to hook up, cos it does hurt thats all. Good luck.

Dear bellabrunette5, Well you have hurt him already by hooking up with him when you don’t care (that way) for him. You should really tell him now before he gets deeper involved with his feelings. If you only want to be his friend than be his friend not a bed buddy. You are giving mixed signals to him and when you tell him he may be hurt and confused but you still may be able to be friends. If you continue to hook up with him you will more than likely end up as enemies. Sue….good luck

well, all i’ve got to say is that you should just tell him. maybe that will even help stop your party sex.

You seem to be “hooking” up with him only when you drink….i suggest you stay away from alcohol if thats what it does to you!!